How do you react when conversations get difficult?
A short diagnostic that reveals your default patterns in disagreement and how disagreeing well can transform your relationships, influence and success in life.
- 5 min
- 20 questions
- Free
- normally £25
I contribute my viewpoint even when others may see things differently.
Pick one to start. Your answer carries straight into the quiz.
Five ways people handle conflict. Which one are you?
- 01
The Avoider
Prefers harmony, avoids confrontation, tends to hold back views.
- 02
The Pleaser
Wants everyone to feel good; struggles to challenge or disappoint.
- 03
The Debater
Loves ideas, arguments, logic; can overwhelm others.
- 04
The Defender
Protects their position, seeks certainty, dislikes ambiguity or challenge.
- 05
The Connector
Balances courage, curiosity, and clarity; disagrees well with intent to improve decisions.
Your results, the moment you finish.
- 01Identify your disagreement persona in conflict
- 02Understand how to communicate with other personas
- 03Get actionable insights
Your disagreement preference
The Pleaser
with a secondary preference for The Avoider
Destructive conflict is a silent tax on performance.
The Disagreeing Well Diagnostic™ reveals your hidden strengths in conversation, and where it holds you back in relationships.